How do you get the attention of that cute guy that you've always wished would ask you out? Is a baseball bat an option or should you go for something a little more subtle? Often it is the very man that we wish would ask us out that we feel invisible to. Attracting his attention and letting him know in a subtle way that we are attracted to him can be a challenge but not impossible. How can you cut him away from the herd of women that are competing for his attention and make him see that you're truly something special?
Short of asking him out yourself, there are many ways to create a connection with that special guy. While being up front and honest might be refreshing, pushy women are often a turn off for most men. A man still wants to be a man and you probably wish that he would approach you first. You want him to chase you. You want that romantic feeling that he picked you and not the other way around.
Throughout the entire dating process including the attraction phase, it's a good idea to be yourself. Even if you know a few things about him, his likes and dislikes, it's important that you be yourself. It can be embarrassing if he finds out that you were deceitful or if you lied about something later on in the relationship. Even mundane or insignificant things will make a guy wonder. After all, if you are able to be deceitful about something small then there's a good chance that you can lie about something big at a later date. Even if you know that he is a big sports nut and he loves football, avoid the temptation to try to make him believe that you're a football fan too. A guy can tell and you're not fooling anyone.
We all have more than a few skeletons in our closets. Maybe you have made a few mistakes in your life or you are ashamed of where you come from. Even if it is easy to avoid these topics when asked, tell the truth. In the beginning stages of a relationship, men are very non-judgmental and if he likes you he will accept you as you are. There's no reason to hide anything. You might feel uncomfortable being asked the question but think about how he is going to feel when you tell him the truth. He is going to feel bad about bringing up a topic that might not have a pleasant answer but also, you will have shared something with him that not too many people know about. This will create a bond between the two of you and it will actually help your relationship.
As you get to know each other and you start communicating, listen more and try to speak less. It doesn't matter if you're talking face to face, over the phone or exchanging text messages. Avoid the trap of being the one doing all the talking. While many men might be used to such one sided conversations, you want to appear different. In addition, you want to get to know him and bond with him. If you can ask him some good questions that lead to answers that require further details you can drill down into his life. If you are persistent enough and you allow a man the opportunity to talk, he will eventually feel safe enough with you to share his hopes, dreams and innermost thoughts. He will feel close to you and bond with you in a way that will make him feel like he has always known you.
Try to keep you personality joyful and bubbly. When asked, most men will say that they like women who smile and are happy all the time. It lifts them up and they feel happy being around happy women. On the other hand, they avoid women who complain and are depressed about life all the time. Bubbly women often have many guys chasing them. If you aren't naturally bubbly or happy, try being optimistic and happy about the fact that you are talking to this guy that you are attracted to. He doesn't have to know that you are happy for this reason. All he will know is that you're always happy when he sees you. You can complain about your job, your mother or physical aliments at a later date, if necessary.
If you feel that flirting is out of style or just not your thing then think again. Flirting is one of the most powerful weapons that you have in your arsenal to get the attention of the man of your dreams. Men are visual so anything that you can do to visually allow him to get the message that you're interested in him will work. He might not hear your words but if you wink at him, he will get the message. If you flip your hair and then look up at him through a lock of hair, he will forget what his name is. Flirting works and if you think that it won't work for you then there is surely another girl out there that will prove to you that the guy you're interested in is susceptible to flirting.
Getting the attention of any guy is simple. Try some of these methods out and practice them on unsuspecting victims and you will find that in time there isn't a guy alive that is immune to your advances. You will become a pro at getting a guy's attention and making him ask you for his number. These methods are so seductive that he will even think that it was his idea to date you in the first place. Have fun most of all and good luck with getting the attention of that cute guy that you're dying to date.
Short of asking him out yourself, there are many ways to create a connection with that special guy. While being up front and honest might be refreshing, pushy women are often a turn off for most men. A man still wants to be a man and you probably wish that he would approach you first. You want him to chase you. You want that romantic feeling that he picked you and not the other way around.
Throughout the entire dating process including the attraction phase, it's a good idea to be yourself. Even if you know a few things about him, his likes and dislikes, it's important that you be yourself. It can be embarrassing if he finds out that you were deceitful or if you lied about something later on in the relationship. Even mundane or insignificant things will make a guy wonder. After all, if you are able to be deceitful about something small then there's a good chance that you can lie about something big at a later date. Even if you know that he is a big sports nut and he loves football, avoid the temptation to try to make him believe that you're a football fan too. A guy can tell and you're not fooling anyone.
We all have more than a few skeletons in our closets. Maybe you have made a few mistakes in your life or you are ashamed of where you come from. Even if it is easy to avoid these topics when asked, tell the truth. In the beginning stages of a relationship, men are very non-judgmental and if he likes you he will accept you as you are. There's no reason to hide anything. You might feel uncomfortable being asked the question but think about how he is going to feel when you tell him the truth. He is going to feel bad about bringing up a topic that might not have a pleasant answer but also, you will have shared something with him that not too many people know about. This will create a bond between the two of you and it will actually help your relationship.
As you get to know each other and you start communicating, listen more and try to speak less. It doesn't matter if you're talking face to face, over the phone or exchanging text messages. Avoid the trap of being the one doing all the talking. While many men might be used to such one sided conversations, you want to appear different. In addition, you want to get to know him and bond with him. If you can ask him some good questions that lead to answers that require further details you can drill down into his life. If you are persistent enough and you allow a man the opportunity to talk, he will eventually feel safe enough with you to share his hopes, dreams and innermost thoughts. He will feel close to you and bond with you in a way that will make him feel like he has always known you.
Try to keep you personality joyful and bubbly. When asked, most men will say that they like women who smile and are happy all the time. It lifts them up and they feel happy being around happy women. On the other hand, they avoid women who complain and are depressed about life all the time. Bubbly women often have many guys chasing them. If you aren't naturally bubbly or happy, try being optimistic and happy about the fact that you are talking to this guy that you are attracted to. He doesn't have to know that you are happy for this reason. All he will know is that you're always happy when he sees you. You can complain about your job, your mother or physical aliments at a later date, if necessary.
If you feel that flirting is out of style or just not your thing then think again. Flirting is one of the most powerful weapons that you have in your arsenal to get the attention of the man of your dreams. Men are visual so anything that you can do to visually allow him to get the message that you're interested in him will work. He might not hear your words but if you wink at him, he will get the message. If you flip your hair and then look up at him through a lock of hair, he will forget what his name is. Flirting works and if you think that it won't work for you then there is surely another girl out there that will prove to you that the guy you're interested in is susceptible to flirting.
Getting the attention of any guy is simple. Try some of these methods out and practice them on unsuspecting victims and you will find that in time there isn't a guy alive that is immune to your advances. You will become a pro at getting a guy's attention and making him ask you for his number. These methods are so seductive that he will even think that it was his idea to date you in the first place. Have fun most of all and good luck with getting the attention of that cute guy that you're dying to date.
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