Do you think you know what women look for in a man? Has your experience or research shown you what you think most women look for in a guy but still you're single or not able to date the kind of women you desire? What a woman really wants or looks for in a guy is a bit elusive. Most women will also tell you one thing and exhibit preferences in real life. This makes things even more confusing for most men. Let's take a look at what most guys think that women look for in a guy and what the truth is.
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted by money and guys that have a lot of money. They'll even show you social proof of this fact by telling you about rich guys that have their pick of women or women that do go after guys with money. As a result, many guys are led to believe that in order to date very attractive women you need to buy their affection. Many guys feel that all hope is lost unless they are rich so they settle for low hanging fruit or women that they know are already attracted to them or below their standards.
Sure, there are women out there that go after guys with money. They are formally known as gold diggers and they're really not the kind of women that you want to date. Your relationship with a woman like this isn't stable and there will always be a guy out there that is richer and you don't want to be loved for what you can provide in terms of material goods, do you. The good news is that most women are not this way. Most women don't care how much money you make and they don't want you to buy them things. They don't want to feel like you're buying their affection and it makes a real woman feel cheap and dirty. That should make sense to you and the myth that women are attracted to rich guys is just a myth. Forget about how much money you make and if you are wealthy then let that be a pleasant surprise for later in your relationship with the woman of your dreams.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
Many women will tell you that they are looking for a nice guy. They will tell you that they wonder where all the nice guys have gone or they'll complain that all the good guys are taken. You might think that if you could just show her how nice you are by being polite and being thoughtful then she will fall in love with you. If every woman is looking for a nice guy then you become that nice guy that every woman is looking for. This is the perfect plan.
You probably already know that women tend not to go for nice guys. If it was true then you'd be dating a super model by now. While being nice is important in a relationship, many guys make the mistake of being nice to try to impress a girl. This causes something strange to happen. You appear a little desperate or needy when you go out of your way to be nice to a girl before you have created any rapport or a connection with a girl. Being nice comes later. Being bad also isn't a way to attract the attention of a pretty girl either, no matter what anyone has told you.
The truth about what women really do desire in a man might be a little shocking to you but here's the truth. Women look for a man that is genuine and true. They want a man that is dependable, strong and who instills a feeling of being protected when they are with him. They feel as if they are able to talk about anything with him including their fears and dreams. A woman wants a man that is emotionally strong and wise. They want a man that is secure enough in himself to be genuine when he's around her. It takes a real man to be himself and not play games when he has found the woman of his dreams. If you can pull that off without flinching then you have a chance at dating some of the most beautiful women in the world.
Most guys will tell you that women are attracted by money and guys that have a lot of money. They'll even show you social proof of this fact by telling you about rich guys that have their pick of women or women that do go after guys with money. As a result, many guys are led to believe that in order to date very attractive women you need to buy their affection. Many guys feel that all hope is lost unless they are rich so they settle for low hanging fruit or women that they know are already attracted to them or below their standards.
Sure, there are women out there that go after guys with money. They are formally known as gold diggers and they're really not the kind of women that you want to date. Your relationship with a woman like this isn't stable and there will always be a guy out there that is richer and you don't want to be loved for what you can provide in terms of material goods, do you. The good news is that most women are not this way. Most women don't care how much money you make and they don't want you to buy them things. They don't want to feel like you're buying their affection and it makes a real woman feel cheap and dirty. That should make sense to you and the myth that women are attracted to rich guys is just a myth. Forget about how much money you make and if you are wealthy then let that be a pleasant surprise for later in your relationship with the woman of your dreams.
Well, if women don't look for riches in a mate then they surely must judge guys based upon looks. This is how most guys initially become attracted to women so the same must be true for most women, right? Women look for the most handsome or the guy with the biggest muscles since this denotes strength and virility, right? Women who are in shape tend to date guys that work out. Famous models are always seen with guys that look like models and movie stars date their co-stars. This is what we are told in the media. It is what we see every day so it must be true, right?
This thought or myth that beautiful women only date guys that are good looking or physically fit comes from how men think. Men are visual in nature and we judge women by how they look. Women aren't wired this way. Women look beyond physical appearance. Often models, actresses and people who work out a lot wind up with other models, actors and muscular guys because they spend a lot of time in the same places and in the same circles. These guys also have the confidence and time to create a connection with these women and you will be surprised to find that these beautiful women aren't as judgmental as you might think. Sure, you should be tidy looking and free from offensive odors but physical appearance isn't nearly as important to a woman as most guys think.
Many women will tell you that they are looking for a nice guy. They will tell you that they wonder where all the nice guys have gone or they'll complain that all the good guys are taken. You might think that if you could just show her how nice you are by being polite and being thoughtful then she will fall in love with you. If every woman is looking for a nice guy then you become that nice guy that every woman is looking for. This is the perfect plan.
You probably already know that women tend not to go for nice guys. If it was true then you'd be dating a super model by now. While being nice is important in a relationship, many guys make the mistake of being nice to try to impress a girl. This causes something strange to happen. You appear a little desperate or needy when you go out of your way to be nice to a girl before you have created any rapport or a connection with a girl. Being nice comes later. Being bad also isn't a way to attract the attention of a pretty girl either, no matter what anyone has told you.
The truth about what women really do desire in a man might be a little shocking to you but here's the truth. Women look for a man that is genuine and true. They want a man that is dependable, strong and who instills a feeling of being protected when they are with him. They feel as if they are able to talk about anything with him including their fears and dreams. A woman wants a man that is emotionally strong and wise. They want a man that is secure enough in himself to be genuine when he's around her. It takes a real man to be himself and not play games when he has found the woman of his dreams. If you can pull that off without flinching then you have a chance at dating some of the most beautiful women in the world.
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